Picture someone you know who is incredibly talented: an athlete, a musician, a scientist.
You can't picture someone who is a virgin when it comes to talent or gift and has nothing doing. Virginity is good but having a skill will help you, you won't put virginity in your CV when acquiring a job.
You probably wish you had been born with some type of gift, right?
You were.
"We are often taught that talent begins with genetic gifts-that the talented are able to effortlessly perform feats the rest of us can only dream about. This is false. Talent begins with brief, powerful encounters that spark motivation by linking your identity to a high-performing person or group. This is called ignition, and it consists of a tiny, world-shifting thought lighting up your unconscious mind:
"I could be them."

Here's an example. You want to get better at something. At anything. so the key is to make sure you use a method that follows the R.E.P.S. gauge:
R: Reaching and Repeating
E: Engagement
P: Purposefulness
S: Strong, Speedy Feedback
Let's take a brief look at each.
Reaching and Repeating: Practice should require you to operate at the edge of your abilities. In short, you have to consistently reach and constantly repeat.
Engagement: Practice must command your attention and make you feel emotionally invested in striving for a goal.
Purposefulness: Practice must directly connect to the skill you want to build. (Sounds obvious, but often what we practice has little to do with what we need to accomplish.)
Say you feel nervous and intimidated when you have to speak to a group. Should you:
1. Rehearse at home, alone, until you know your material inside out, or
2. Practice speaking to small groups of people in less formal settings, like in a meeting?
Although solo rehearsing certainly helps, the only way to perform well under the pressure of an audience is to actually practice speaking to people. No amount of solo practice will prepare you for the nerves you'll feel when every eye in the room is on you.
Strong, Speedy Feedback: Practice must provide an immediate and consistent flow of accurate information about performance.
A Port Harcourt based singer Michael Rich from NorthHill Music posted on his Facebook page;
"Young lady being a virgin is cool, but get something doing.
Acquire a skill. You can't add virginity to your CV"
He said this to motivate fans in doing something profiting this year than been idle.